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07
Jun
2010
Excerpt: "Jesus Wants To Save Christians"
Life - Social Justice

The following is an excerpt from Rob Bell's "Jesus Wants To Save Christians."  The title of the chapter is "Swollen-Bellied Black Babies, Soccer Moms on Prozac, and The Mark of The Beast."  I highly recommend this book for reading.  It's only adding to what's going on inside me and messing me up.

Imagine the average youth group in the average church on the average Sunday. Imagine visiting this youth group and having the pastor say to you, "I just can't get my kids interested in Jesus. Do you have any suggestions?"

How do you respond?

To begin with, the church has a youth group. This is a brand-new idea in church history. A luxury. Everybody in the church doesn't meet all together? All of the babies and older folks and men and women and widows and students aren't in the same room, but they've gone to separate rooms?

And there are resources for this? People and organizational structures and a budget? Let's imagine that in this case, this pastor, this youth pastor, is paid a salary for his or her work. A church with enough resources to pay someone to oversee the students? Once again, this is brand new, almost unheard of in most of the churches in the world, and in church history, a brand-new invention.

This salary can be paid and this building can be built because people in the congregation have surplus. They have fed themselves and their children and bought clothes and houses, and now, after these expenses, there is still money available. And this money is given in an act of generosity to the church, which disperses it to various places, among them the bank account of the pastor.

In many, if not most, of the churches in the world, immediate needs simply don't allow for such luxuries—too many people are hungry, too many don't have a roof, too many are sick—and so any surplus is spent immediately on the basic needs staring them right in the face,

people dying here,

right now,

today.

But this particular church is blessed, and we should be clear about this—it is blessing. It is good. It is fortunate that this particular church doesn't have those issues. This church has enough resources to hire a pastor who had the resources to get training to gather these students in the student room to teach them about the way of Jesus. Many Christians around the world would simply stand in awe of that kind of blessing.

And the students in this church, these are good kids. They are from families who just want to see their kids become good Christians.

Imagine just how much is available to them. They have more at their fingertips than any generation in the history of the world—more information, more entertainment, more ideas, more ways to kill time, more options.

Many of them own more than one pair of shoes.

There are even some among them who have eaten at least one meal every day of their lives.

So, we are talking about a miniscule minority of kids in the world.

At the exit off the highway near their church is a Best Buy and a Chili's and a Circuit City and a McDonald's and a Wal-Mart and a Bed, Bath and Beyond, much like the other towns in their state and in their country. The music they listen to is distributed by one of five major corporations, which also own the movie studios that create the movies they watch, which are also connected to the corporations that create the food they eat and the commercials they watch, which also have significant ties to the clothes they wear and the cell phones they own, and the ring tone on their cell phones, the one by the artist who is signed to the record label that is owned by the same company that owns the cell phone company and the advertising agency that announced the artist's new album, which is owned by the same company that owns the beverage company in whose advertisement the artist appeared, drinking that particular beverage, singing the song that is now a ring tone on the students' phones that they purchased at the mall across the street from the Olive Garden next door to the Home Depot on the other side of the Starbucks.

And so each week they gather to hear a talk from the pastor.

Their pastor tells them about the Jesus revolution.

About Jesus resisting the system.

About the blood of the cross.

About many of the first Christians getting arrested.

About Jesus having dinner with prostitutes and tax collectors.

About people sharing their possessions.

About Jesus telling a man to sell everything.

About the uniqueness of their story in the larger story of redemption.

How do children of the empire understand the Savior who was killed by an empire?

How does a twelve-year-old who has never had hunger pangs that lasted more than an hour understand a story about a twelve-year-old providing fish and bread for thousands of chronically hungry people?

How do kids who are surrounded by more abundance than in any other generation in the history of humanity take seriously a Messiah who said, “I have been anointed to preach good news to the poor”?

How do they fathom that half the world is too poor to feed its kids when their church just spent two years raising money to build an addition to their building?

They gather, they sing, they hear a talk from the pastor, and then they get back in the car with their parent and they go home; the garage door opens up, the car goes in, and the garage door goes down.

This is the revolution?

This is what Jesus had in mind?

And so the youth pastor turns to you and says, again, “I just can't get my students engaged with Jesus. Do you have any suggestions?”

What do you say?

How do you respond?

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06
Jun
2010
I'm guilty of Sodomy. Are you?
Life - The Deep Stuff

Now that I've got your attention (and possibly offended you) with the title of this post, I want you to read a verse that I haven't been able to get away from for the past month.  And quite honestly, I have no idea what to do with it.

Ezekiel 16:49-50: Behold, this was the guilt of your sister Sodom: she and her daughters had arrogance, abundant food and careless ease, but she did not help the poor and needy.  50 They put on airs and lived obscene lives. And you know what happened: I did away with them.  (NASB and MSG)

So let me ask you again... Are you guilty of Sodomy? Not by the Webster's definition of course but according to this little kick in the face.

Because to me, this sums up America quite well.  Before Sodom was judged for the sexual depravity and immorality that we always associate with it, God lists a few things that look eerily familiar...

1. Arrogance
2. Preoccupation with luxurious living, comfort and leisure
3. Ignoring the poor and oppressed and disregarding their needs

Lately, I've been wrestling with all of this.  This idea of a comfortable suburbia existence where we just want a quiet life and nice things.  This incredible self-absorption in our capitalistic society that is nothing more than a materialistic grab at the American dream, the building of an empire and our own little personal kingdoms. 

Material things and abundant blessing were always intended to be for others, not to build and preserve our little empires whether personal, in business, or church.  Blessing should never be misconstrued as favoritism or entitlement.

What I hate most is that it's so damned difficult to break from this system because it's so pervasive.  It's everywhere.  It's in our culture.  It's in me.  It's in you.  And sad to say, it's in the church which shouldn't surprise us because the church is me and you.

Arrogance... check. The pinnacle of "having arrived" is found in that published book or amount of Twitter followers or RSS readers or blog hits or weekend attendance or an online store with the next greatest "resource" that shows how to build a great life empire, just like me.  Let's all get together and talk about how the way we do things is the right way.  And while we're there, let's cloak our questions so it's not so blatant that we're really just comparing numbers and size.

Preoccupation with luxurious living, comfort and leisure... check.
While we're there at the conference or denominational gathering comparing and secretly resenting others' "success", why don't we just pull down our pants and play the "which youth room is cooler" or "which sanctuary has the newer fancier HD projectors instead of the old kind" game.  Because isn't that the measure of success for all Americans? Having nice things and lots of them.

Ignoring the poor and oppressed and disregarding their needs... check. It seems that our definition of success is mainly found in the things listed above.  The accumulation of stuff and the building of empires when God's definition of success is caring for the widow, the orphan, and the poor.  How much of our "programming" is geared to blessing the poor, needy, and oppressed?  Very little, if at all.  It's not on most churches' radar and it's not on most our personal radars either.  It's all about me.

And while I realize the tone of this post has been much more about tearing down than building up, I must say that I'm having a hard time stomaching it all really and this is just my rant.  If I'm honest, the root of all of this frustration is that I don't quite know what to do with these three detestable things inside me.  The arrogance, the preoccupation of having a bunch of nice things, and the disregard for those hurting and in need all around me. 

While I'm thankful for the country and churches I've grown up in, we are way "East of Eden" and I'm not sure how we get back.  This system of anti-Kingdom has invaded my soul and I feel like a man in exile because although I love my church and I love the Church, I've left a lot of the silliness and ideology that it embodies behind but I have nothing to replace it with. 

My biggest fear is that like the disciples, I'm just looking for another kingdom (see Acts 1:6) to replace it with.  The disciples didn't want the kind of Kingdom Jesus was after.  They still wanted one with horses and military bases and palaces... they just wanted all these things to be theirs and not the Romans.  They spent years with Jesus and they still didn't get it.  I wonder if we ever will.

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29
May
2010
Summer plans?
Family - Life

Just curious what you have going on this summer and how your family plans?  We sat down the other night and made a list of things to do this summer to fight off the bordom.  Here's a partial list of local stuff.  Any other ideas are welcomed...

What are you doing this summer?

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29
May
2010
What We Have Here Is A Failure To Communicate
Life - The Not-So Deep

The other night, Patrick and I stopped at a gas station just outside Nashville on our way home from the Montgomery Gentry video shoot.  I went inside to grab some snacks for the late night drive home and my interaction with the attendant (we'll call him George) went something Iike this:

George: Is that gonna do it for ya?

Me: Yep. (Pause) Oh, and this Powerbar. Don't know why I kept it in my hand.

George: Do you have cash? Cause you can't pay with a credit or debit card for that.

Me: I can't use my debit card?

George: Not for that. Everything else is fine except for that. It's against the law to pay for it with a credit card.

Me: It's against the law to pay for the Powerbar with my credit card?  That's the silliest thing I've ever heard.

George: Where are you from, son?

Me: Birmingham.  But why does that matter?

George: Well, up here it's illegal to pay for that with a credit or debit card.

Me: That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Why in the world would that be illegal?

George: Well, they probably don't want people running up debt by coming in here buying a bunch of them all at the same time.

Me: That's hilarious!  Stupidest law I've ever heard of in my life.  I can't believe it's illegal in Tennessee to pay for a Powerbar with my credit or debit card no matter how many I want to buy at one time. I should be able to buy as many as I want even if in this case it only happens to be one.

George: Did you say "Powerbar?"  I thought you said "PowerBall."

Funny how one small misunderstood word can change an entire conversation.  Communication would be much more effective if we would just back up and clarify what we said instead of expecting the other person to just magically understand where we're coming from.

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29
May
2010
We've All Got a Lego Stuck Up Our Nose
Family - Parenting

Benaiah comes over with tears in his eyes and says, "EMERGENCY!!!"  He tilts his head back so I can look in his nose and I calmly say, "You're good. You're not bleeding.  Did you scratch yourself or something?"

Shaking his head he says, "No, there's a Lego stuck up in there."  At this point in the story, I'd like to say that I remained calm, cool, and collected.  But, I didn't. My response went something Iike...

"Oh no!  Why would you stick a Lego up your nose?  Honey, get off the phone, we're probably going to the emergency room. Ben, why would you do this?  Don't ever do that again.  Oh man."

Now, in my defense, I looked in his nose and there was most assuredly NOT a Lego up in there which means there was a Lego WAY up in there. So I had a bit of a reason to freak out, at least a little.

We went to the bathroom and one good, hard blow later and the Lego was in my hand. I know it's gross but I was thankful to have the ironically green Lego piece in my hand and not the recesses of my son's nasal and sinus cavity.

He cried a little bit and I was relieved but as we sat there watching Astro-Boy later that evening, I reflected back on my response.... or rather, my reaction.  Not that I freaked out all that much but, I should have remained a bit more calm.  Later in life, when my son has something really important to tell me, I don't want him to be afraid of my reaction.  I don't want him to hold it in Iike we sometimes do, only to try and navigate whatever situation or problem he's facing on his own.

At times, we all suffer silently in temptation, sin, guilt, grief, fear or depression because we're afraid of how others will react.  We've got to do a better job of confessing to one another.  But more than that, we've got to be the kind of people others can confess to because in the end, we've all got a Lego stuck up our nose.

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24
Apr
2010
like a sloppy wet kiss
Life - The Deep Stuff

He is jealous for me,
Loves like a hurricane, I am a tree,
Bending beneath the weight of his wind and mercy.
When all of a sudden, I am unaware of these afflictions eclipsed by glory,
And I realise just how beautiful You are,
And how great Your affections are for me.

And oh, how He loves us so,
Oh how He loves us,
How He loves us all

We are His portion and He is our prize,
Drawn to redemption by the grace in His eyes,
If grace is an ocean, we’re all sinking.

So Heaven meets earth like a sloppy wet kiss,
And my heart turns violently inside of my chest,
I don’t have time to maintain these regrets,
When I think about, the way…

He loves us.

by John Mark McMillan

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14
Apr
2010
Lego Matrix
Random - Everything Else
Love this great Lego stop motion...

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13
Apr
2010
Cars in Hawaii'!!??
Family - Parenting

Ben: If we ever go to Hawaii', will we stay one day?

Me: No buddy... it'd be more like 8 or 10 days.

Ben: Without food?!

Me: No man... we'd have food.

Ben:  Oh yeah... coconut trees and bananas.

Me:  No... there are stores there.

Ben:  There are?

Me:  Yeah... and houses and cars and roads.

Ben:  You mean there's buildings there?  How'd they get the paint there?

Ben:  ...(thinking)

Ben:  So... there's cars and they just drive on the sand.

Me:  No... they have roads just like us and everything else.

Ben:  Oh ok... I guess we could go for longer then.

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12
Apr
2010
Christians Trying To Convert Non-Christians
Life - Church Life

Christians Trying to Convert Non-Christians from Rethink Mission on Vimeo.

At the end of an interview for a series we [Christ City Church in Memphis] were doing at The Journey, my good friend Aaron turned to me and said, "I'd like to say something about Christians trying to convert non-Christians."

via Randy Burris

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10
Apr
2010
Hero: A compelling video
Random - Hilarity
This video is definitely worth the wait for it to load and watch.  Extremely compelling!

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