I've never shied away from conflict but contrary to what some may believe, I don't enjoy it.  In fact, I get all sweaty-palmed when I know it's coming.  In the heat of the moment though, I don't back down and that has not always been a good thing in my relationships, least of all my marriage.  But, conflict is inevitable as long as there are two people living on the planet.  It happens, and it can be a healthy thing that pushes us forward and helps us grow.

So, the question is: Is there such a thing as non-sinful conflict? If so, what does it look like?

More specifically, what does conflict look like for you?  Or put differently... what is your conflict style?

If you're married or in a relationship, what works for you and your partner and what doesn't?  And if not, what does conflict look like for you?  Do you clam up or lash out?  Do you pout?  Do you manipulate?  Do you approach the issue with level-headed objectiveness?  Are you loud or quiet?

It's Tuesday... Let's Talk: Conflict.

BTW, I'd recommend you read this article before you respond which was the spingboard for this week's ITLT.  It's pretty good.